Guide To Getting It On

Sex in Porn vs. Real Life with Bob The Llama

”As a Human Sexuality educator at a community college, I find these videos to be a godsend for my students. The students look forward to watching them. They frequently comment how creative and educational they are and share them with their friends. Keep developing these videos from Bob...

How To Cure a Noisy Bed

Let’s say you just moved back home with your mom and dad and the last thing you want is for the whole house to know when you’re having sex thanks to a squeaky bed. This is easier said than done, given how intercourse can turn a bed into...

FREE Chapter: Sex When You Are Living with Your Parents

It used to be that most young adults either got married soon after college or they shared a place with roommates. But this has changed, and it’s changed in a big way. More young adults are living with their parents than ever before. Here’s some great advice for...

Ultimate Guide to the Clitoris for Couples

“I just watched Paul Joannides’ newest sex ed video on the clitoris and it’s totally fabulous. It is clear, practical, and amusing. It provides adolescents and young adults both factual information and the encouragement to talk with a female partner about her body and her preferences. I will...

FREE Chapter: Sex with a Co-Worker

When you date someone you meet through work, you know what they look like, how they behave under stress and how they treat others. You’ll know if they have a good sense of humor and if they have a solid work ethic. If they have personality problems, their...

FREE Chapter: MRIs of Sexual Arousal

MRIs or neuroimaging studies of the brain and crotch are the future of sex research. However, there currently exist serious limitations of brain-imaging technology and human behavior. This chapter will give you an idea of the challenges that researchers have to deal with as they are exploring this...

A Leading Cause of Infertility in Young Men Is…

One of the leading causes of infertility in young men is athletic injuries. Fortunately, there’s a new generation of cups you can try, in addition to comfortable compression shorts to hold them in place. You probably won’t find the coolest of cups at your local Target, Walmart, or...

For Guys Who Are Uncut: Putting on a Condom

Here’s the best video I’ve ever seen on different ways of putting on a condom for guys who are uncircumcised. They show a method we never see here in the States for men whose foreskins are long or don’t retract. This video is from a great site in...

FREE Chapter: Sex during Pregnancy

Some pregnant women will want more intimacy than ever before, while others will want space—sometimes vast amounts of space. This can be confusing for a dad-to-be, as he is never quite sure if the love of his life wants to snuggle or pluck his eyes out. Also, don’t...

Two Mistakes Guys Make When Kissing Women

Up your kissing game with this steaming hot video from Dr. Paul and Bob the Llama!

Sperm Spying Kits!

Here’s a list of fertility kits that have special lenses that allow you to see your or your partner’s sperm swim with the help of your hand and a phone: From Yo. And soon to be released from Tenga.

FREE Chapter: Sex in the Military

It’s not like soldiers leave their sex drives in their home towns, but the military does not always provide helpful information about sexuality for new recruits. Since the military does not publish reports on the sexual practices of its members, we have put this information together based on...

FREE Chapter: Birth Control–Sperm v. Egg

In the United States, 49% of pregnancies in women under the age of 34 are neither planned nor intended. The number rises to 75% for women over 40, and a whopping 80% of teen pregnancies are not wanted. Two-out-of-three unplanned teenage pregnancies happen to girls between the ages...

“I tend to masturbate after we have sex. My husband is an excellent lover, so it’s not that. I think it’s more like coming down...Read More

- A Woman from Our Sex Survey

“My boyfriend’s foreskin hurts when I touch it”

Dear Dr. Paul, My boyfriend and I have not had sex, but when I’ve touched his foreskin he says it hurts him. If I retract the skin its too much for him, it hurts. But when I don’t, he doesn’t feel anything. He hasn’t had sex with anyone. I...