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Sex in the Military

It’s not like soldiers leave their sex drives in their home towns. But providing helpful information about sexuality for new recruits is not always a priority of the military. Since the military does not publish reports on the sexual practices of its members, we have put this information together based on clandestine reports from the field.

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Illustration by the incredible Daerick Gross, Sr.

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Birth Control–Sperm v. Egg

In the United States, 49% of pregnancies in women under the age of 34 are neither planned nor intended. The number rises to 75% for women over 40, and a whopping 80% of teen pregnancies are not wanted. Two-out-of-three unplanned teenage pregnancies happen to girls between the ages of 18 and 20—ages where you’d least expect teenage pregnancies to occur.

Click Here to download a FREE eBook that tells you about different methods of birth control.

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Gnarly Sex Germs (aka Sexually Transmitted Infections)

The most common reason for reading about Sexually Transmitted Infections is when you are worried about having something that you’d rather not have, or when someone you had sex with a few weeks ago just sent you a text that starts with “BTW…”

Click Here to download a FREE eBook on Sexually Transmitted Infections from the Guide To Getting It On.

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How To Cure a Noisy Bed

Let’s say you just moved back home with your mom and dad and the last thing you want is for the whole house to know when you’re having sex thanks to a squeaky bed.

This is easier said than done, given how intercourse can turn a bed into a battering ram. The entire bed will sway toward the foot with each out-thrust and toward the head with each in-thrust. So if it’s hitting the wall, try moving the bed away from the wall. If that doesn’t work, stabilize it by cramming pillows or gasket-like material between the headboard and the wall.

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For Guys Who Are Uncut: Putting on a Condom

Here’s the best video I’ve ever seen on different ways of putting on a condom for guys who are uncircumcised. They show a method we never see here in the States for men whose foreskins are long or whose foreskins don’t retract.

This video is from a great site in New Zealand that’s for gay guys called Love Your Condom from the Ending HIV group. Hopefully, you won’t have a problem with that if you’re straight. And if you do, sorry mate. While www.Guide2Getting.com is for men and women who have sex with each other, we encourage 100% respect for men who have sex with men and women who have sex with women.

This site also has the best how-to videos you’ll find on how to have anal sex, which are just as helpful for straight couples as gay couples: How To Have Anal Sex.

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A Leading Cause of Infertility in Young Men Is…

One of the leading causes of infertility in young men is athletic injuries. Fortunately, there’s a new generation of cups you can try, in addition to comfortable compression shorts to hold them in place. You probably won’t find the coolest of cups at your local Target, Walmart, or sporting goods store chain, but that shouldn’t stop you. Spend some time on the following websites and find a cup that will work best for you, your sport, and the position you play.

The Spider Guard Cup, designed by an engineer who creates medical equipment. His teenage son was a shortstop who wouldn’t wear cups because they were so uncomfortable. So he studied the physics of testicle injuries and came up with an entirely new concept in cup design.

Shock Doctor’s new AirCore Soft Cup and AirCore Hard Cup are pretty cool, unless you are playing catcher or goalie, in which case you’ll want nothing short of their Titan Alloy Cup.

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Sex and Breast, Brain & Ball Cancer

If you have been searching for honest and truly helpful information about sex and cancer, congratulations because you’ve finally found it! We cover breast cancer, brain cancer, and cancer of the testicles.

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Talking To Your Partner about Sex

One of the keys to having good sex is feeling comfortable talking to your partner about sex, but it’s an area many of us struggle with.

Click Here to download a FREE eBook “Talking to Your Partner about Sex.”

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Sex Terms & Sex Slang

Our new Dictionary with more than 750 sex terms and slang is now here. Just visit the Dictionary Page or enter a term in the search box on the far right side of the menu.

The illustrations in this slideshow are by the incredible Daerick Gross Sr. from the Guide To Getting It On.

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A Free Chapter on Explaining Sex to Kids

Parents are often puzzled at how to explain sex to their children. This free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On is full of common sense advice on how to explain sex to your kids from ages 3 to 18.

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A Free Chapter on Breasts & Bras

When bras were first invented, women didn’t want to have anything to do with them. But in less than 100 years, bras became essential parts of women’s clothing and lingerie. Read about this fascinating transition in this chapter about breasts and bras from the Guide To Getting It On.

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“My boyfriend’s foreskin hurts when I touch it”

Dr. Paul

My boyfriend and I have not had sex, but when I’ve touched his foreskin he says it hurts him. If I retract the skin its too much for him, it hurts. But when I don’t, he doesn’t feel anything. He hasn’t had sex with anyone. I will be his first. He masturbates with the skin all the way up. It never seems to retract. Honestly, I’ve been doing most of the research and he doesn’t know what the problem is. I think it may be mild phimosis.

YouTube viewer of Your Video “A Woman’s Guide To Men’s Foreskins”

Dear YouTube Viewer,

It’s never a good sign when you’re the one having to figure out what’s going on with a boyfriend’s penis!

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Free Chapter on Barbie

More girls than you would ever imagine made their Barbie Dolls have sex. This free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On not only tells about the fascinating history of Barbie, but you will marvel at the ingenuity of our readers whose Barbie dolls were no strangers to sexual exploits of many different kinds.

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