FREE Chapter: What’s Masculine, Feminine and Erotic

Once you start chipping away at what’s masculine and feminine in different cultures, you can’t help but agree that much—but by no means all—of what we consider to be masculinity and femininity are inventions of culture. It can be fun and informative to take a closer look. Click...

When women watch porn

Plenty of women watch porn, but not as often as men. Also, the porn images that women masturbate to can be different from those that men prefer. Researchers are finding that women tend to prefer porn GIFs instead of videos. GIFs are brief animations that last only a few...

A Woman’s Breasts Are Usually Not the Same Size

More than 90% of women have breasts that are different from each other in size, shape, or position on their chest. It’s usually the left breast that’s larger, and in almost 25% of women, the larger breast is at least one cup size bigger than the other. This...

The strangest things women say they have masturbated with

Once a woman gets to be in her twenties, she usually has access to vibrators and dildos if that’s what she would like to use for masturbation. But before then, the variety of objects that women use to get themselves off with is truly impressive. Recently, one of...

Sex, Asperger’s and Autism

Here is an extensive list of books, articles and website on sex, Asperger’s and autism. I have tried to divide these resources into two parts: Part 1. For parents, teachers, therapists, teens and preteens, and Part 2. For adults with autism and their partners who may or may not...

FREE Chapter: The Dirty Word Chapter

You might be wondering why a chapter on dirty words would be in such a fine and upstanding book as the “Guide to Getting It On.” Perhaps there is more to dirty words than meets the ear. Find out in this brief but culturally insightful chapter. CLICK HERE...

It’s okay for women to give blowjobs, but not for men to do this?

A recent study of young adults from the UK found that both men and women consider performing oral sex on a woman to be a “far bigger deal” than performing oral sex on a man. “Many young men referred to vulvas negatively — as ‘dirty,’ ‘disgusting,’ ‘nasty,’ ‘droopy,’ ‘messy,’ ‘saggy,’ ‘stinking,'” the study’s...

From an expert on hymens

I just received the following comment from an expert on the hymen whose study I had quoted in a post I did for the Psychology Today Blogs titled The New York Times Is Wrong about Hymens—But They Are Not Alone: Dear Paul, I found your article on hymens to be...

How wet do women get when they are not aroused?

A gynecologist who consults for my book says you wouldn’t believe how many women think their vaginas should be dry when they are not feeling sexually aroused. Here’s the reality: it’s not unusual for there to be enough discharge from a woman’s vagina to dry on her underwear...

The Nuts and Bolts of Gay Sex

Does bottoming hurt? What’s the best position for anal? Is foreplay important? What’s your best oral advice? Top, bottom, versatile: What’s with that? For answers to these and other questions about gay sex, you won’t find a better source than Clyde Engle’s article at Elite Daily 10 Gay Sex Questions...