FREE Chapter: On Needles and Pins: Piercings & Tattoos

If you are thinking about getting a tattoo or a tongue, body, or genital piercing, here are some of the basics you’ll need to know. Included are helpful tips about having sex when you or your partner has genital, tongue or nipple piercings. Click Here to download a...

FREE Chapter: I Knew The Bride — Long Term Relationships

This chapter is about marriage and long term relationships. It doesn’t pretend to be comprehensive, but it does speak about weddings, tradition, sex in marriage, fights, make-up sex, kids and divorce. Click Here to download a FREE eBook “I Knew the Bride–Sex in Longterm Relationships.” This EPUB file...

FREE Chapter: The Dirty Word Chapter

You might be wondering why a chapter on dirty words would be in such a fine and upstanding book as the “Guide to Getting It On.” Perhaps there is more to dirty words than meets the ear. Find out in this brief but culturally insightful chapter. CLICK HERE...

FREE Chapter: Talking To Your Partner about Sex

One of the keys to having good sex is feeling comfortable talking to your partner about sex, but it’s an area many of us struggle with. You might find many dividends from sharing this chapter with a partner. Click Here to download a FREE eBook “Talking to Your...

FREE Chapter: What’s Masculine, Feminine and Erotic

Once you start chipping away at what’s masculine and feminine in different cultures, you can’t help but agree that much—but by no means all—of what we consider to be masculinity and femininity are inventions of culture. It can be fun and informative to take a closer look. Click...

Nice Pivot

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FREE Chapter: Sex When You’re Horny & Disabled

If you think you are fair-minded about sex, consider a quadriplegic who wheels by in an electric wheelchair. The person drools a little and steers the chair with a joy stick that’s strapped to his fore- head. Do you think of this person as being sexual? Do you...

FREE Chapter: Explaining Sex to Kids

Parents are often puzzled at how to explain sex to their children. This free chapter is full of common sense advice on how to explain sex to your kids from preschool to high school. Click Here to download a FREE eBook for Parents on How To Explain Sex to...

FREE Chapter: The Fruit of His Loom—Men’s Underwear

In only a few years, men’s underwear has gone from being boring and utilitarian to colorful, expensive and far less traditionally masculine than in past generations. Learn how it happened in this brief but fascinating look at men’s underwear. Click Here to download a FREE eBook on Men’s...

FREE Chapter: Breasts & Bras

There’s hardly a woman in Western culture who doesn’t have at least a couple of bras, including a favorite one or two for when she wants to feel extra sexy. She can also make a sexual statement by not wearing a bra. And what teenage boy doesn’t equate...

FREE Chapter: Intersex Conditions

Intersex is when a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the typical definitions of female or male. Many people with intersex conditions look typically male or female on the outside, but inside there may be some blending of the parts we call male...

“My boyfriend’s foreskin hurts when I touch it”

Dear Dr. Paul, My boyfriend and I have not had sex, but when I’ve touched his foreskin he says it hurts him. If I retract the skin its too much for him, it hurts. But when I don’t, he doesn’t feel anything. He hasn’t had sex with anyone. I...

FREE Chapter: Barbie the Icon

More girls than you would ever imagine made their Barbie Dolls have sex. Learn about the fascinating history of Barbie and marvel at the ingenuity of our readers whose Barbies were no strangers to sexual exploits, which ranged from vanilla to kink, group sex and BDSM. Here’s a small...