Ultimate Guide to the Clitoris for Couples

“I just watched Paul Joannides’ newest sex ed video on the clitoris and it’s totally fabulous. It is clear, practical, and amusing. It provides adolescents and young adults both factual information and the encouragement to talk with a female partner about her body and her preferences. I will...

Elk in Our Pasture

My wife took this shot of an elk cow nursing her calf in our lower pasture, fifty yards from our house.

Banana Bread Bake Off Competition, And the Winner Is…

My experimental loaf of banana bread supercharged with ½ cup of home-made banana rum liqueur and an infusion of the juice from 5 bananas (reduced down to approximately a ¼ cup)  just placed third at the Oregon State Fair. Given how many banana breads are entered in state...

FREE Chapter: Sex with a Co-Worker

When you date someone you meet through work, you know what they look like, how they behave under stress and how they treat others. You’ll know if they have a good sense of humor and if they have a solid work ethic. If they have personality problems, their...

FREE Chapter: Sex during Pregnancy

Some pregnant women will want more intimacy than ever before, while others will want space—sometimes vast amounts of space. This can be confusing for a dad-to-be, as he is never quite sure if the love of his life wants to snuggle or pluck his eyes out. Also, don’t...

FREE Chapter: Kink in the Animal Kingdom

Are humans the only animals who have sex for pleasure in addition to reproduction? Are the other animals limited to having sex for reproduction and dominance only? Is there no kink in the rest of the animal kingdom? Until recently, that’s what the biologists had told us. Fortunately,...

FREE Chapter: MRIs of Sexual Arousal

MRIs or neuroimaging studies of the brain and crotch are the future of sex research. However, there currently exist serious limitations of brain-imaging technology and human behavior. This chapter will give you an idea of the challenges that researchers have to deal with as they are exploring this...

FREE Chapter: Sex & Diabetes

The one constant in almost everything written about sex and diabetes is that no humor is allowed. It seems the minute a person is diagnosed with diabetes, the part of their brain that processes humor is presumed to suffer from permanent low blood sugar. Not to worry with...

FREE Chapter: Sex in the Military

It’s not like soldiers leave their sex drives in their home towns, but the military does not always provide helpful information about sexuality for new recruits. Since the military does not publish reports on the sexual practices of its members, we have put this information together based on...

FREE Chapter: Birth Control–Sperm v. Egg

In the United States, 49% of pregnancies in women under the age of 34 are neither planned nor intended. The number rises to 75% for women over 40, and a whopping 80% of teen pregnancies are not wanted. Two-out-of-three unplanned teenage pregnancies happen to girls between the ages...

FREE Chapter: Pee Shy? Bashful Bladder?

Do you find it nearly impossible to pee in a public restroom? Millions of people have what is known as Bashful Bladder Syndrome (aka, “paruresis” or being “pee shy”). We are happy to provide you with helpful information about this very challenging and frustrating condition. Click Here to...

Sex in Porn vs. Real Life with Bob The Llama

”As a Human Sexuality educator at a community college, I find these videos to be a godsend for my students. The students look forward to watching them. They frequently comment how creative and educational they are and share them with their friends. Keep developing these videos from Bob...

How To Cure a Noisy Bed

Let’s say you just moved back home with your mom and dad and the last thing you want is for the whole house to know when you’re having sex thanks to a squeaky bed. This is easier said than done, given how intercourse can turn a bed into...