Choking a Partner During Sex. DO NOT DO THIS! A Free Chapter
The single most dangerous and degrading act that porn has helped popularize is the idea that women like to be choked during sex. Choking during sex is as dangerous as a police chokehold. That’s because interruption of blood supply to the human brain for as little as 4...
Consent: Are You Good? A Free and Very Compelling Chapter
Consent in sex is massively important, yet it can be very confusing–especially because of the well-intended but often misleading slogans about consent from Title IX. Both men and women will find this free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On to be one of the most helpful...
Glossary
We are in the process of updating the glossary and installing it. It is massive and giving us all kinds of issues in WordPress. We hope to have it up by the first week in February. Thanks for your patience.
This Biscotti Recipe Won 2nd Place at the Oregon State Fair
This is the biscotti recipe I used to win a 2nd place ribbon at the Oregon State Fair. Given there were several biscotti entries, I think it’s a solid bet. I was originally going to use the biscotti recipe from the excellent Cook’s Illustrated Baking Book, because they have done research...
Women’s Masturbation
While there are many similarities between men’s and women’s masturbation, there are important differences, and that’s what this video is about. YouTube has age-restricted this video, so you might have to be signed into YouTube in order to watch it.
Facials: Why Most Women Don’t Like Men to Come in Their Face
You’d never know it from watching porn, but most women don’t like it when men ejaculate on their face. “My boyfriend cums on my chest, and it turns me on in ways I’d have trouble describing. It puts me in an animal state of mind. But on my...
How to Increase Testicle Size, Semen Volume, Fertility, and Testosterone in Men
A recent study that found young men who take fish oil supplements have larger testicles, more semen volume, a higher level of testosterone, and better sperm quality. This appears to be a direct result of the fish oil supplements as opposed to differences in lifestyle. Here’s a link...
Female and Male Bodies Are More Different than We Previously Thought, and Why This Matters
There are far more differences between men’s and women’s bodies than the ones we enjoy when we are having sex and watching porn. This video shows why these differences are important, and how estrogen and testosterone are only a part of what makes us male or female.
Sexting: Nudes vs. Dick Pics
Do women pay a bigger social cost for sending nudes than men do for sending dick picks? And is sending dick picks to women effective? This video includes suggestions for how men can up their sexting game.
Fap Not–Masturbation Madness
Learn the five warning signs for when someone you know is a male masturbator. And see what would happen if anti-masturbation forces were to influence government policy.
How a Tipped Uterus Can Impact Sex
Women often assume there is something wrong with them if certain intercourse positions aren’t comfortable. This video shows why this is not true, and why it’s important for each couple to experiment and find which positions feel best for them—regardless of what you read about the latest and...
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