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FREE Chapter: The Dirty Word Chapter

You might be wondering why a chapter on dirty words would be in such a fine and upstanding book as the “Guide to Getting It On.” Perhaps there is more to dirty words than meets the ear. Find out in this brief but culturally insightful chapter. CLICK HERE...

For the chapter Talking To Your Partner About Sex: this illustration is of a couple having rear entry intercourse, with woman on all fours and man on his knees behind her, while both are on their laptops.

FREE Chapter: Talking To Your Partner about Sex

One of the keys to having good sex is feeling comfortable talking to your partner about sex, but it’s an area many of us struggle with. You might find many dividends from sharing this chapter with a partner. Click Here to download a FREE eBook “Talking to Your...

For our chapter on Masculinity and Femininty, an illustration of knights dueling in background while a disinterested princess files her nails.

FREE Chapter: What’s Masculine, Feminine and Erotic

Once you start chipping away at what’s masculine and feminine in different cultures, you can’t help but agree that much—but by no means all—of what we consider to be masculinity and femininity are inventions of culture. It can be fun and informative to take a closer look. Click...

For our chapter Sex When You Are Horny and Disabled: A paraplegic man in a wheelchair passionately making out with a barely clothed woman who is sitting on his lap.

FREE Chapter: Sex When You’re Horny & Disabled

If you think you are fair-minded about sex, consider a quadriplegic who wheels by in an electric wheelchair. The person drools a little and steers the chair with a joy stick that’s strapped to his fore- head. Do you think of this person as being sexual? Do you...

A little girl is pointing to her brother in another room saying to her shocked mother "Mommy, Billy's got a boner!"

FREE Chapter: Explaining Sex to Kids

Parents are often puzzled at how to explain sex to their children. This free chapter is full of common sense advice on how to explain sex to your kids from preschool to high school. Click Here to download a FREE eBook for Parents on How To Explain Sex to...

Rendering of a Calvin Klein billboard ad from the early 90s showing a hunky young man in his white Calvin Klein briefs leaning against a wall with his eyes closed.

FREE Chapter: The Fruit of His Loom—Men’s Underwear

In only a few years, men’s underwear has gone from being boring and utilitarian to colorful, expensive and far less traditionally masculine than in past generations. Learn how it happened in this brief but fascinating look at men’s underwear. Click Here to download a FREE eBook on Men’s...

Women wearing bras from bra ads during the 1950s and 1960s.

FREE Chapter: Breasts & Bras

There’s hardly a woman in Western culture who doesn’t have at least a couple of bras, including a favorite one or two for when she wants to feel extra sexy. She can also make a sexual statement by not wearing a bra. And what teenage boy doesn’t equate...

The word Intersex with the letters and background in mixed pink and black colors.

FREE Chapter: Intersex Conditions

Intersex is when a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the typical definitions of female or male. Many people with intersex conditions look typically male or female on the outside, but inside there may be some blending of the parts we call male...

Young girl looking forlorn after pulling down her Ken doll's pants to discover nothing is there.

FREE Chapter: Barbie the Icon

More girls than you would ever imagine made their Barbie Dolls have sex. Learn about the fascinating history of Barbie and marvel at the ingenuity of our readers whose Barbies were no strangers to sexual exploits, which ranged from vanilla to kink, group sex and BDSM. Here’s a small...

Delightful photo of a woman who is naked from the waist down and is drinking a cup of tea and has a hand on her upper thigh, from the NakedTea Tumblr.

FREE Chapter: Your Vagina—Population In the Trillions

The health of every woman’s vagina depends on a complex world of bacteria and other organisms that’s called a microbiome. But few women or men have ever heard of this. Here’s a fascinating and easy to read explanation about the population of trillions of organisms that live in...

A porn image from the 1800s, showing a woman and man having intercourse while he's sitting in a large chair and facing away from him (reverse cowgirl).

FREE Chapter: Sex in the 1800s

This wonderful chapter explains how prostitution was a vital part of American culture long before men and women started dating. You’ll learn about the birth of pornography as we know it today, about condoms that only covered the head of a man’s penis, and how differently oral sex...

The words "Sex and autism" boldly displayed in 3d type with an abstract blue floral background.

Sex, Asperger’s and Autism

Here is an extensive list of books, articles and website on sex, Asperger’s and autism. I have tried to divide these resources into two parts: Part 1. For parents, teachers, therapists, teens and preteens, and Part 2. For adults with autism and their partners who may or may not...

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