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Choking a Partner During Sex. DO NOT DO THIS! A Free Chapter

The single most dangerous and degrading act that porn has helped popularize is the idea that women like to be choked during sex. Choking during sex is as dangerous as a police chokehold. That’s because interruption of blood supply to the human brain for as little as 4...

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Consent: Are You Good? A Free and Very Compelling Chapter

Consent in sex is massively important, yet it can be very confusing–especially because of the well-intended but often misleading slogans about consent from Title IX. Both men and women will find this free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On to be one of the most helpful...

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When Sex Always Hurts

Few men understand how painful sex can be for some women. This isn’t pain from sex that’s rushed or rough. It’s more like when a Q-tip is pressed against a woman’s genitals and it causes her to flinch in pain. Or when intercourse with a gentle lover creates...

For the Sex during Pregnancy chapter, an illustration of a woman who is pregnant and her partner reaching around her from being and lovingly placing his hands on her belly.

FREE Chapter: Sex during Pregnancy

Some pregnant women will want more intimacy than ever before, while others will want space—sometimes vast amounts of space. This can be confusing for a dad-to-be, as he is never quite sure if the love of his life wants to snuggle or pluck his eyes out. Also, don’t...

For Kink in the Animal Kingdom, an illustration of two Tyranosaurus Rexes having sex.

FREE Chapter: Kink in the Animal Kingdom

Are humans the only animals who have sex for pleasure in addition to reproduction? Are the other animals limited to having sex for reproduction and dominance only? Is there no kink in the rest of the animal kingdom? Until recently, that’s what the biologists had told us. Fortunately,...

For the chapter Sex & MRIs, an abstract glowing image of a couple kissing.

FREE Chapter: MRIs of Sexual Arousal

MRIs or neuroimaging studies of the brain and crotch are the future of sex research. However, there currently exist serious limitations of brain-imaging technology and human behavior. This chapter will give you an idea of the challenges that researchers have to deal with as they are exploring this...

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FREE Chapter: Sex & Diabetes

The one constant in almost everything written about sex and diabetes is that no humor is allowed. It seems the minute a person is diagnosed with diabetes, the part of their brain that processes humor is presumed to suffer from permanent low blood sugar. Not to worry with...

For sex in the military, this is a split image illustration of a soldier in combat on the right side, while sitting in his living room looking alienated on the left side.

FREE Chapter: Sex in the Military

It’s not like soldiers leave their sex drives in their home towns, but the military does not always provide helpful information about sexuality for new recruits. Since the military does not publish reports on the sexual practices of its members, we have put this information together based on...

For this chapter on birth control, there is a comic illustration of a sperm who has lots of attitude with a "NO" symbol laid over it.

FREE Chapter: Birth Control–Sperm v. Egg

In the United States, 49% of pregnancies in women under the age of 34 are neither planned nor intended. The number rises to 75% for women over 40, and a whopping 80% of teen pregnancies are not wanted. Two-out-of-three unplanned teenage pregnancies happen to girls between the ages...

For our chapter on sexually transmitted infections there is an image of an HIV virus as seen through an electron microscope (colorized) with red blood cellist the background.

FREE Chapter: Gnarly Sex Germs—aka Sexually Transmitted Infections

The most common reason for reading about Sexually Transmitted Infections is when you are worried about having one, or when someone you had sex with a few weeks ago just sent you a text that starts with “BTW…” This chapter on gnarly sex germs (STIs) reads way better...

Image shows a row of urinals in a public restroom with a male standing in front of one trying to urinate but he can't because he is peeshy.

Pee Shy? Bashful Bladder?

Do you find it nearly impossible to pee in a public restroom? Millions of people have what is known as Bashful Bladder Syndrome (aka, “paruresis” or being “pee shy”). We are happy to provide you with helpful information about this very challenging and frustrating condition. Click Here to...

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FREE Chapter: Sex and Breast, Brain & Ball Cancer

If you have been searching for honest and truly helpful information about sex and cancer, you’ve finally found it! Whether it’s breast cancer, brain cancer, or cancer of the testicles, you will receive important insights and helpful suggestions. Click Here to download a FREE eBook on Sex and...

For our chapter on shaving body hair: this is an illustration of a hand pushed lawnmower cutting a path through the pubic hair on a woman's genitals.

FREE Chapter: Shaving Down Below

This free chapter explains more about body hair and ways to remove it than most people know, including some of the bigger myths about shaving. Click Here to download a FREE eBook on Shaving Down Below. This EPUB file will automatically be downloaded to your laptop, desktop, phone...

Illustration of a woman's hands on the testicles and shaft of an erect penis that has a Prince Albert piercing.

FREE Chapter: On Needles and Pins: Piercings & Tattoos

If you are thinking about getting a tattoo or a tongue, body, or genital piercing, here are some of the basics you’ll need to know. Included are helpful tips about having sex when you or your partner has genital, tongue or nipple piercings. Click Here to download a...

Wedding couple with bride and groom still mostly dressed, she on his lap putting his erect penis into her vagina--a very happy and extravagant illustration with partly opened wedding gifts strewn about and a curious cat peeking into one of the boxes.

FREE Chapter: I Knew The Bride — Long Term Relationships

This chapter is about marriage and long term relationships. It doesn’t pretend to be comprehensive, but it does speak about weddings, tradition, sex in marriage, fights, make-up sex, kids and divorce. Click Here to download a FREE eBook “I Knew the Bride–Sex in Longterm Relationships.” This EPUB file...

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