The single most dangerous and degrading act that porn has helped popularize is the idea that women like to be choked during sex. Choking during sex is as dangerous as a police chokehold. That’s because interruption of blood supply to the human brain for as little as 4 seconds can lead to a loss of consciousness–it doesn’t matter if it’s a sex partner who is doing the choking or someone who is trying to do you harm. Please read this brief chapter before choking a sex partner or asking a partner to choke you.
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