Category archive: sex

Shows the feet of a couple having sex from the perspective of the foot of the bed, with the person on top wearing funny socks.

How To Cure a Noisy Bed

Let’s say you just moved back home with your mom and dad and the last thing you want is for the whole house to know when you’re having sex thanks to a squeaky bed.

This is easier said than done, given how intercourse can turn a bed into a battering ram. The entire bed will sway toward the foot with each out-thrust and toward the head with each in-thrust. So if it’s hitting the wall, try moving the bed away from the wall. If that doesn’t work, stabilize it by cramming pillows or gasket-like material between the headboard and the wall.

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Couple in bed, his erection is making a tent in the sheets.

For Guys Who Are Uncut: Putting on a Condom

Here’s the best video I’ve ever seen on different ways of putting on a condom for guys who are uncircumcised. They show a method we never see here in the States for men whose foreskins are long or whose foreskins don’t retract.

This video is from a great site in New Zealand that’s for gay guys called Love Your Condom from the Ending HIV group. Hopefully, you won’t have a problem with that if you’re straight. And if you do, sorry mate. While www.Guide2Getting.com is for men and women who have sex with each other, we encourage 100% respect for men who have sex with men and women who have sex with women.

This site also has the best how-to videos you’ll find on how to have anal sex, which are just as helpful for straight couples as gay couples: How To Have Anal Sex.

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A baseball player being hit in the crotch with a ball, with the caption "Wear a cup if you want to have children some day" and "Cup technology has come a long way."

A Leading Cause of Infertility in Young Men Is…

One of the leading causes of infertility in young men is athletic injuries. Fortunately, there’s a new generation of cups you can try, in addition to comfortable compression shorts to hold them in place. You probably won’t find the coolest of cups at your local Target, Walmart, or sporting goods store chain, but that shouldn’t stop you. Spend some time on the following websites and find a cup that will work best for you, your sport, and the position you play.

The Spider Guard Cup, designed by an engineer who creates medical equipment. His teenage son was a shortstop who wouldn’t wear cups because they were so uncomfortable. So he studied the physics of testicle injuries and came up with an entirely new concept in cup design.

Shock Doctor’s new AirCore Soft Cup and AirCore Hard Cup are pretty cool, unless you are playing catcher or goalie, in which case you’ll want nothing short of their Titan Alloy Cup.

Sex Terms & Sex Slang

Our new Dictionary with more than 750 sex terms and slang is now here. Just visit the Dictionary Page or enter a term in the search box on the far right side of the menu.

The illustrations in this slideshow are by the incredible Daerick Gross Sr. from the Guide To Getting It On.

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A Barbie like nurse with her plastic arms pulling apart a real human foreskin.

“My boyfriend’s foreskin hurts when I touch it”

Dr. Paul

My boyfriend and I have not had sex, but when I’ve touched his foreskin he says it hurts him. If I retract the skin its too much for him, it hurts. But when I don’t, he doesn’t feel anything. He hasn’t had sex with anyone. I will be his first. He masturbates with the skin all the way up. It never seems to retract. Honestly, I’ve been doing most of the research and he doesn’t know what the problem is. I think it may be mild phimosis.

YouTube viewer of Your Video “A Woman’s Guide To Men’s Foreskins”

Dear YouTube Viewer,

It’s never a good sign when you’re the one having to figure out what’s going on with a boyfriend’s penis!

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Free Chapter: Sex in the Military

This is one of the better summaries ever written on sex in the military, with comments from the surveys of men and women who have served and had sex in the military.

To get the entire chapter for free, CLICK HERE. A pdf of the chapter will magically appear!

The illustration is by Daerick Gross Sr, from the “Guide To Getting It On.”

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The family wiener dog is running through the kitchen with the daughter's vibrator in its mouth as parents look on in surprise.

Having Sex When You Are Living with Your Parents

It used to be that most young adults either got married soon after college or they shared a place with roommates. But that has changed, and it’s changed in a big way. Researchers have found that more young adults are living with their parents than ever before.

Click Here for the FREE CHAPTER: “Sex after You Move Back Home” from the Guide To Getting It On. It’s the ultimate guide for adult children who are living at home with their parents, and for their parents as well! This chapter covers the issues and solutions for dealing with sex under your parents’ roof.

Couple having sex in living room caught by surprise as parents suddenly arrive home.

Illustrations are by the amazing Daerick Gross Sr.

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Woman in pain

When Sex Always Hurts

Between 5% and 10% of women in their teens, twenties and thirties experience pain when they have intercourse. This free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On describes how this kind of chronic pain differs from pain due to rushed or clumsy lovemaking, and describes some of the strategies that are used to help combat it.

CLICK HERE to download this free chapter on Chronic Sexual Pain from the Guide To Getting It On.

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