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Couple having rear entry intercourse, with woman on all fours and man on his knees behind her, while both are on their laptops.

Talking To Your Partner about Sex

One of the keys to having good sex is feeling comfortable talking to your partner about sex, but it’s an area many of us struggle with.

CLICK HERE for a free copy of the chapter “Talking To Your Partner about Sex” from the Guide To Getting It On.

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Free Chapter: Sex in the Military

This is one of the better summaries ever written on sex in the military, with comments from the surveys of men and women who have served and had sex in the military.

To get the entire chapter for free, CLICK HERE. A pdf of the chapter will magically appear!

The illustration is by Daerick Gross Sr, from the “Guide To Getting It On.”

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The family wiener dog is running through the kitchen with the daughter's vibrator in its mouth as parents look on in surprise.

Having Sex When You Are Living with Your Parents

It used to be that most young adults either got married soon after college or they shared a place with roommates. But that has changed, and it’s changed in a big way. Researchers have found that more young adults are living with their parents than ever before.

Click Here for the FREE CHAPTER: “Sex after You Move Back Home” from the Guide To Getting It On. It’s the ultimate guide for adult children who are living at home with their parents, and for their parents as well! This chapter covers the issues and solutions for dealing with sex under your parents’ roof.

Couple having sex in living room caught by surprise as parents suddenly arrive home.

Illustrations are by the amazing Daerick Gross Sr.

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Delightful photo of a woman who is naked from the waist down and is drinking a cup of tea and has a hand on her upper thigh, from the NakedTea Tumblr.

Population: In the Trillions

CLICK HERE for a FREE copy of Population: In the Trillions from the Guide To Getting It On. This is a new chapter from the upcoming 9th edition. IMHO it is fascinating information that every woman and straight man should read.

For a great explanation of microbiomes in the human body, check out Your Microbial Friends from the University of Utah and click on different parts of the illustrations.

The image above is from the wonderful Tumblr Naked Tea!

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A porn image from the 1800s, showing a woman and man having intercourse while he's sitting in a large chair and facing away from him (reverse cowgirl).

Sex in the 1800s

I spent more than a year doing research for this chapter on sex during the Victorian Era. It’s one of my favorite chapters in the book. One of the best ways to understand where we are now is to study the past.

CLICK HERE for FREE copy of the chapter Sex in the 1800s from the Guide To Getting It On.

The image above is from the Delta of Venus website that features vintage and retro porn.

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When Sex Always Hurts

Between 5% and 10% of women in their teens, twenties and thirties experience pain when they have intercourse. This free chapter from the Guide To Getting It On describes how this kind of chronic pain differs from pain due to rushed or clumsy lovemaking, and describes some of the strategies that are used to help combat it.

CLICK HERE to download this free chapter on Chronic Sexual Pain from the Guide To Getting It On.

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Sex, Asperger’s and Autism

Here is an extensive list of books, articles and websites that I’ve put together on sex, Asperger’s and autism.

I’ve tried to divide these resources into two parts: Part 1. For parents, teachers, therapists, teens and preteens, and Part 2. For adults with autism and their partners who may or may not have autism.

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