About This Website

People keep reminding me that as a sex educator, I’m supposed to be doing posts about sex. But I have more fun doing posts on food, sports, nature and whatever else catches my eye. So you’ll find there’s a mix of all these things on this website.

About the Book

Covers of earlier editions of the "Guide To Getting It On"

Covers of earlier editions of the “Guide To Getting It On”

When I first wrote the Guide To Getting It On, no publisher wanted it because they said it wasn’t enough like the “Joy of Sex,” which was how all sex books were supposed to be at the time. The book also had a sense of humor, and America’s publishers believed that sex and humor were not good companions. So I started my own publishing company. Within the first year, the Guide To Getting It On was winning awards and was being used in college sex-ed courses.

Twenty years later, the book is in its ninth edition. It has won a number of awards, and has been used in several college sex-ed courses and in medical schools. It has been translated into fourteen different languages.

Some of the covers of the foreign translations of the "Guide To Getting It On"

Some of the covers of the foreign translations of the “Guide To Getting It On”

Dr. Paul with Woody the beagle sleeping on his shoulder.
Dr. Paul and Woody

About Dr. Paul

Paul Joannides, Psy.D. is a Training and Supervising Psychoanalyst. He is the author of the Guide To Getting It On, an award-winning book on sex that is used in dozens of college sex-education courses and has won praise in Rolling Stone, Playboy and Oprah Magazine.

Paul has been on the editorial boards of the Journal of Sexual Medicine and the American Journal of Sexuality Education. He was presented with the Professional Standard of Excellence Award by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists.

Paul is the author of  The Challenging Landscape of Problematic Sexual Behaviors, Including ‘Sexual Addiction’ and ‘Hypersexuality’ in New Directions in Sex Therapy, 2nd edition, (Kleinplatz) and The Luxury of Intersectionality in Taking Sides: Clashing Views in Human Sexuality (McKee, Gilbert and Galarza).

Paul created the 90 Seconds on Sex series for Playboy/Sirius Radio. He writes on sex for Psychology Today Blogs. The NCAA approved Paul to speak to college athletes on sexuality as part of their speaker’s grant program. The college campuses he has spoken at include Dartmouth, Yale, Tufts, Lehigh, Rice, Middlebury, East Carolina University, North Carolina State University and the University of California at Santa Barbara. Paul has given the opening keynote address for the CFLE-Planned Parenthood National Sex Education Conference and the Oregon Adolescent Sexuality Conference.

The illustrations used on this site are from the Guide To Getting It On. The illustrator is the incomparable Daerick Gross Sr.

Several of the nature pics on this site are from the coast of Oregon, where Dr. Paul lives on a small farm with his wife, daughter, llamas, a pair of goats, and three wonderful dogs.